Center for Conscious Living
4/6/2018
The concept of mental illness is at its core about control. When someone is labeled mentally ill, a system including physicians, social workers, and government authorities begins to gain access to her life. People have problems. People have mental or psychological problems. The practice of calling these problems by names reflecting illness and thus putting them into the purview of physicians has been doing harm for decades. It is also demeaning, taking ultimate control from the individual and placing it within their genes or their parents.

I have said it many times and shall say it for as long as I can: there is not a pill for that. Make no mistake, your brain is a biological entity--YOU are a biological entity--thus distress of the mind and emotions are also biological entities, but this does not imply that the only or even the best or even a viable way to solve problems of the mind and emotions is with a pill. The overused "chemical imbalance" theory is dead. On the contrary, psychoactive pills cause chemical imbalances--they change your brain in ways science does not understand, sometimes they alleviate symptoms, but they do not CURE distress.

Thus one danger of calling mental distress a "disease" is that it is then treated as such--you become a patient and you look to a doctor to fix something. This works with appendicitis and broken legs and cancer. It is a fact,however, that not all things clearly within the realm of medical disorders are treatable by medical doctors. In general, there is no treatment for the flu or even the common cold, and physicians are stymied by irritable bowel and migraine. Medical science certainly does not work with depression, anxiety, phobia, PTSD, and the many variations of psychological distress delineated in the various manuals of disease such as the DSM and the ICD, because these are not diseases in the once-commonly understood meaning of the term. These problems do not show demonstrable tissue damage such as a cancer or a stroke, nor do they have symptoms that represent the body fighting a foreign invader, such as cough, fever, runny nose. Rather they have emotions and behaviors as their hallmarks.



How weird is it that one way of diagnosing ADHD is to try a pill and if that works, then the diagnosis fits? What this really means is that there is a behavior someone (not necessarily the individual in question) wants  changed, and there is a pill to reduce that behavior, and someone thinks the reduction of that behavior will be beneficial to the individual. It is debatable whether there is always benefit in reducing the cluster of behaviors we have called ADHD. It also turns out that while it may be the case that for some individuals, reducing the behaviors we have come to label "ADHD" is indeed of benefit, this can be done via psychotherapy and biofeedback, both of which lack the potentially serious side-effects of commonly prescribed ADHD medication (lack of appetite, depressed mood, sleeplessness, loss of creativity, failure to maintain growth patterns compatible with age). By simply calling ADHD a disease in need of medication, we fail to account for individual differences, and potentially do harm to the individuals so labelled.

A similar paradigm applies to anxiety--anxiety is a signal that something is wrong. It is not the case that all anxiety must always be removed via medication.  I submit that it is vitally important to understand the root of this anxiety and assist the individual in achieving a reduction in his discomfort via understanding and changing thoughts and behaviors in such as way as to feel calmer. Anxiety is basically a subset of fear. While in modern times we are rarely in actual fear for our lives, modern life has many stressors--job stress, school stress, health stress, financial stress, traumatic stress. Applying a pill to the results of these stressful situations is not a solution, and it is certainly not a cure. You are anxious for a reason, and you need to learn about this reason and either remove the distress or change yourself accordingly--which might mean anything from thinking differently to moving out of a dangerous environment. When we diagnose anxiety as if it is a disease, we neglect the vital information about the state of the individual struggling with the anxiety.

The answer thus to the title question is yes, these diagnostic labels  speak to something very real. On the other hand, the use of such labels leads us down the wrong path to helping you, the client, feel better. So they are not "just" another label; rather any one of them is a misleading and potentially dangerous and stigmatizing label.  It is all too easy to become trapped in the language of illness; "I have depression" or "I am depressed" rather than, "I feel depressed" or even "I have been feeling depressed for a long time".

Describing your distress as a temporary state rather than a fact of your existence can be very liberating and allows you to focus on the potential for change. Remember that stress is a motivator to change. It is hard to change when you are feeling anxious or depressed or in pain, but that is the time when even a small change in how you think or act can make a significant difference. Try something silly right now--pull your face into the biggest smile you can and observe what happens. Change your posture--sit up straighter if you are slouched--slouch if you were sitting straight--observe your inner state. Small changes can easily lead to bigger ones.

Taking mental distress out of the realm of illness and disease is not meant to belittle or disregard your very real pain. The point is to empower you to take control of your discomfort and regain control of your life, rather than submitting yourself as a patient to the experiment that is modern psychiatry.

Szasz, T.E. (2011). The Myth of Mental Illness: Foundations of a Theory of Personal Conduct. Harper Collins. 









4/6/2018
It's a new year, and we are always looking for resolutions to start our year; ways in which we can commit to self-improvement in the year to come. It has struck me through various interactions in this very early year, that the best thing to do in a new year is often to let go of stuff from the last one and the ones before.

As humans, we have long memories. Our memories vary in their accuracy, but to us, memory is a big part of who and what we are. Each of us is largely the product of the many experiences that we have had and the many people we have known.

The problem with being formed of memories is that it is easy to get stuck in regrets. What if I had not done this or that? What if he or she had not died, left, said that? What if........  And, of course, there is no answer.

When we have erred, hurt someone, suffered a loss, or missed an opportunity, there is an opportunity for growth and learning, but there is rarely a do-over.
It turns out that such difficulties are motivators to change, and are overall a good thing. If nothing ever goes wrong, we are never driven to grow.


Psychologists distinguish eustress from distress. Both are meant to stimulate action. Eustress like the birth of a baby certainly triggers many behavioral changes in new parents, but is nonetheless stressful! Distress also triggers activity, from eating when you are hungry to apologizing to a co-worker you have hurt. What we commonly call stress is really when we are overwhelmingly distressed; when life and work get out of balance, when too much goes wrong, or when something goes wrong that feels like more than you can cope with.

This is a good time to talk to someone, whether in your social network, or professionally, to gain some perspective on what you can do to reduce your perceived distress.  When you remain overwhelmed, it can lead to depression, anxiety, or even physical illnesses caused by too many stress chemicals in the body, so it is important to keep your daily stress under control, but that is a topic for another day.

The problem we are focusing on here arises when you cannot fix an old wrong or get over an old hurt, and it reaches out from the past to haunt your thoughts. People whom you loved dearly have died, and you miss them. Friends have inadvertently been offended by something you said that you did not get a chance to right or vice versa, someone has done something to hurt you. Things from your past seem to creep into your attention and distract you from the present and upset you. It is difficult to ignore these persistent thoughts. They seem important. They seem to carry lessons. You have to fight to put them out of your mind and focus on work or get to sleep.

It turns out that trying to ignore persistent, bothersome thoughts from the past is not a good tactic, despite well-meaning people telling you it will get better with time. Often, that is true. But what do you do when it does not? Sometimes your thoughts seem to get bigger and harder to live with each time they resurface. A more successful approach is to confront these thoughts head on--to figure out the fallacy and deal with them when they surface.

If you miss a dead loved one, focus on positive remembrances. Death is, for better or worse, something inevitable in life. Some deaths seem more unfair and untimely than others, but healing is always possible. There are strategies that work to ease your pain. They are positive strategies--facing the thoughts that plague you, and dealing with their meanings. We all have regrets when a loved one dies, but regrets do not move us forward, and that particular issue cannot be repaired. It can, however, be reframed. Was that particular regret the focus of the relationship, or did it have good points? Death leaves us with sadness, but life is full of joy as well, and the time you shared with a loved one is irreplaceable--what does it take to focus on the positive thoughts about him or her? Is there a benefit to focusing on regret or loss? Which tactic has the best outcome? Perhaps even speculate as to which memories your friend or relation would prefer you to maintain.

Let's say you did something wrong--broke a friend's favorite vase; you apologized, but it is irreplaceable. The friend knows you did not break it deliberately. However, you find yourself agonizing  day after day, night after night, about what a bad thing this was. Will this agony replace your friend's item? Will it prevent clumsiness in future? Will it make you a better person? The answer to each of these, is, of course, no. And the value in this is that if we are to learn from our mistakes, then it is important to know where the lesson lies. It does not lie in self-abuse and regret, but in self-improvement and constructive thinking. Obviously, the breaking of a piece of pottery is not a life and death mistake, but it is used here as a symbol for things that we might do in life that we feel are irreversibly harmful to someone. The important thing is remembering that nothing positive is achieved by tormenting yourself forever.

It is very human to get stuck in recurring unpleasant thoughts about past problems and losses. Our thoughts run our lives; they tell us what to do and how to do it. It turns out, however,  that our thoughts are often repetitive and  uninformative. By refusing to follow such destructive thoughts yet again to their inevitable, painful conclusions, you take control of your mind and of your feelings. It is weird to dismiss a thought in your own mind as harmful, but it is also liberating. What if the four-hundredth time you fret about that broken vase is still not going to restore it or make you a better person? Then it is high time you let yourself off the hook and move on.

You, I, and all of us, are fallible humans. We make mistakes. We suffer losses. We handle things poorly. Sometimes. But these issues do not define you. How you choose to deal with pain and regret is what defines you--what choice you make when you have a choice. It is not a deliberate choice to hurt a friend nor fall down a flight of stairs, but what happens next is. How you think about bad incidents and how you act on those thoughts affects your mood, your self-image, and thus your quality of life.

It often goes against your intuition to deliberately control your thoughts. It is natural to run with the thoughts as they pop into your head. But it can lead to rethinking the same destructive thoughts, getting stuck in unhappy thought patterns, and generally being less happy than if you take that odd-seeming step to say no to depressing, negative, self-effacing thoughts and choose to ponder uplifting and positive things instead.  This does not mean go off into the distance in a fantasy where nothing ever goes wrong. To the contrary, what it means is avoiding being unrealistically  negative in favor of being realistically positive.

Try it. You'll like it.

Ellis, A. & Doyle, K. (2016). How to Stubbornly Refuse to Make Yourself Miserable About Anything--Yes, Anything! Citadel.

Spencer, R.L. (2005). The Craft of the Warrior. Frog Books.






1/13/2018
Goodbye to Bend and all the great people, clients, professionals, and friends and acquaintances, I met and helped or was helped by. It is time to move on, though. While we felt as if, after 3 growing seasons, we had finally mastered small greenhouse gardening in an  inhospitable climate with no soil,  what we really wanted was a place to grow food and watch nature thrive.

Hello Ashland! Up here in the woods, amazingly only 15 minutes from town, clients will be invited to see me in a private space, with the sounds of nature to add to the ambiance. It was gratifying to see our garden immediately begin to thrive as it never had in Bend, and I know the beautiful environment will enhance the healing that occurs for my clients. In-person sessions will begin Sept. 1 in this new space.

I also welcome intensive clients starting Sept. 1: Medford is 30 minutes away and Ashland less than 15, and both have a variety of hotels, motels, B&Bs, and hostels, as well as a fine selection of eateries and groceries. We are 30 minutes from the Medford airport. While a therapy intensive is hardly a vacation, traveling to a beautiful spot far from your daily environment offers a unique opportunity to break old patterns and create new ones. Follow-up in person or via video-chat assists you in maintaining your new learnings in your home environment. 

It has been stressful to move many miles for the second time in 2 years, and perhaps I have learned some new things about managing stress and the ways in which change affects me and others as well. Stress is always both good and bad: it forces new ways of seeing things and behaving, but it can cause strain on the system. Moving changes one's relationship to others, to resources, and to oneself. Out with the old, in with the new, to coin a phrase!

The new incarnation of the Center for Conscious Living will offer individual and family therapy, Rational Emotive Therapy, which is the elegant, effective precursor to CBT,  Sensorimotor Trauma Therapy, and clinical hypnosis. I will continue to focus on physical symptoms that bridge the mind-body gap such as gut issues (irritable bowel, cyclic vomiting), headache (migraine, cluster headache), and chronic pain (RSD, CRPS 1, fibromyalgia); those difficult-to-treat issues that often defy medical treatment. Call for a free phone consultation.

Meanwhile, I shall be learning about my new environment and preparing a new space for seeing clients.


7/20/2017


In the world of caring relationships, we are often told to sacrifice—to put the needs of others before our own. This is considered by many to be the highest form of caring, of service to others.  It contains a fatal flaw, however. It is one thing to “love they neighbor as thyself” and quite another to love him more. This is a valuable clue to many of the ills of humans in society. How can you take care of someone else when you are worn out yourself?

If you continually put others before yourself, whether these are loved ones or total strangers, eventually you will pay the price. As a parent, you often must put your child’s immediate needs first. A child needs help obtaining everything: food, clothing, a place to sleep. When your child is ill, his illness disrupts your sleep. When money is short, your child gets food first. At some point, however, if you wish to be healthy, you will need to catch up. If you continue to put your child’s needs first, you may just collapse one day and no longer be able to care as lovingly or even at all. Caretakers also require care. Even parents fall ill unexpectedly, and always inconveniently! Then, confined to bed, you are finally forced to catch up on self-care.  You realize that this is not the best plan.

It is vital to look inside and ensure that you, as a caretaker, are thriving. In this context, thriving does not mean, staying upright by a thread, thoroughly enjoying the health of your loved one. Rather, it means doing well as an individual—being happy and healthy in your own right. We provide the best care to others when we provide the best care to ourselves.

You say that you are tough, that you can take it, and that you love helping. All of this may be quite true, but no one is limitless; no one is without basic needs. And each of us is worthy of care. Even you.

Be very clear: this concept applies to all relationships. Whether we refer to a child, that dependent being who really does need your care even to survive, a loved one for whom you wish to care to express your devotion, or a stranger to whom you feel obligation because of the bond of humanity; if you do not take care of you, the caring other, then one day, those who depend upon you will no longer enjoy your care.

Caretaking is not some weird game of alternating who gets to be sick and needy; it is rather a social agreement whereby those we love and value share care with us, and we thrive as a group. Sometimes it is true that the caretaking goes one way, as with an elder or an infant, but in all cases, there is a mutual benefit. A parent helped us, and we later help them. A neighbor came to our aid, and one day we help someone else.Value is exchanged, whether in the form of love, trading favors, or simply the good feeling of contributing.

Recall that when you fly, you are cautioned to apply your oxygen mask first in case of emergency, because if you pass out from lack of oxygen, then who will help your child? Every human needs care, not just OTHER humans. The greatest gift we give to our children is the ability to survive independently. This includes being able to share in their own care as soon as they are able. It is not a chore for your child to tie her own shoes or make her own lunch; it is a success. Nor is it a chore for him to make you a PB&J along with his own; it is a chance to feel the joy of contributing.

It is okay to say no. Here is the magic, self-preserving, word that we teach children, but forget to apply to ourselves. When you are asked to put out more energy than you have, in the end, both of you will suffer. You can tell your child to make her own lunch or your partner to do the dishes or your elderly parent to wait until tomorrow for laundry. You can tell your neighbor that today is not a good day to take him to the store.  This does not make you a bad person; it makes you a person.

There is an old ethic that commands us to not be selfish, to not put ourselves first. The problem is that the math does not work. If everyone depends upon others who are not in turn cared for, who will be left standing?   
3/20/2017
I'll start by admitting something; medications scare me. Not all medications and not in all cases, but many. Perhaps this diminishes my credibility as a psychologist who fancies herself quite scientific, but there are reasons for my atypical stance. Allow me to state for the record that I am not a prescribing physician, and what follows is my opinion, which mostly consists of: "Buyer beware".

 In the years since I have been practicing psychology, I have seen a startling number of serious, damaging reactions to medications. In addition, I have also seen no small number of similarly bad reactions to street drugs. Years of observing and reading have thus led me to a very conservative stance regarding attempts to pharmaceutically solve health problems, both physical and psychological, as well as the ones sitting on the border thereof. Some examples follow, after which I'll provide some details about how I work with my clients in light of my observations.


A man called me for help with a serious problem--one that had nearly landed him in jail. He was a peeping tom. Suddenly. The long story was that he had Parkinson's disease and was being treated with L-dopa. In those days, it was not yet firmly established that, due to its effects on the dopaminergic pathways, L-dopa can cause obsessive-compulsive problems. Some time soon after this, the news began to surface--something that ought to have been pretty obvious, that when you alter a neurotransmitter system, since neurotransmitters serve more than one function in the body, you have to expect some serious changes beyond the hoped-for effect. As good a therapist as I fancy myself, nothing I did would completely break this man's obsessive preoccupations, until the drug was stopped. He made therapeutic progress and stopped violating people's rights, but that was not the same as overcoming his obsessive thoughts. So here we have an example of a drug prescribed for a medical condition causing a serious psychological symptom for many years before he came to me and we figured it out. Did that drug help his other problem? Indeed, but the solution caused a more serious issue.

A friend of mine complained of sudden pain and cramping in his muscles during his thrice-weekly jog. He had to stop exercising, which caused him great distress, not to mention weight gain, depression, and other problems. It did not take him much longer to stop his statin medication, change his diet to control his blood chemistry, and get back to normal. Not everyone is this lucky--for some, statins cause permanent alterations in muscle and nerve tissue. For others, lifestyle changes do not make the needed change in cholesterol. The caution here is to read those scary leaflets that come with every prescription and pay attention to your own responses. If you are the unlucky one to experience severe side effects, often there is an alternative to the medication that is causing harm. Talk to your physician.

For several years, my office saw quite a few clients with anxiety that had developed after a course of steroid treatment was ended. These anxiety problems turned out to be much tougher to treat than other forms of anxiety. Eventually steroid treatments began to be tapered carefully and used with more caution, and that problem decreased dramatically. Score one for pharmacology. But, again, proceed with caution when taking steroids. While they can be lifesavers, nothing comes without a cost.

The same caution applies as well to acne medications; while some sorts of acne can be severe and disfiguring, and I would not want a suffering individual to go untreated, the internal medications that have been developed to help sufferers are known to cause anxiety. This can be very hard on the target patient, who is a teenager struggling with a difficult issue. Parents--be willing to monitor your teen and seek psychological help when needed. This is no small matter.

Proceeding to the other end of the equation, we can peek at medications prescribed for psychological issues. And we can find both sorts of side effects; the physical and the psychological. Anti-psychotic medications can cause movement disorders and perceptual problems, not always reversible. Antidepressants have been know to cause anxiety, manic episodes, lethargy, and sleep issues, to name a few. And research shows very little demonstrable mood-enhancing effect. Stimulant medications for attention problems can cause depression, appetite suppression, and sleep problems. These medications are most often given to growing children, for whom such side effects are non-trivial. Again, the message here is to approach psychoactive medications with caution, particularly for children.

I have seen several young adults who either were or had been taking several psychotropic medications. In each case, the psychological symptom that had sent them to the doctor was easily treatable with psychotherapy. In each case, the youth in question suffered suicidal thoughts that struck them as out of the blue until their parents brought them to me. One young woman had taken herself off of all of her pills without medical supervision. Another was simply following doctor's prescriptions when she thought of self-harm. The scary thing for me and for them and their parents was that in each case, the young person had a mild depression, some life stress, or some other life problem that once we got to work at it, was readily treatable.

In another vein, a long, long time ago, a patient, my first actual client, in fact, appeared before me at a rehabilitation hospital. I nearly fainted, being a psychology trainee and not expecting massive quantities of blood. This incredible man was in fact, a high-functioning heroin addict, or had been. His last dose of his drug of choice had caused a massive event depriving his brainstem of oxygen and nearly killing him. He had, indeed, been comatose in a hospital for months, without the normal precautions having been taken to maintain skeletal function, as it was expected that he would not survive. Clearly, they were wrong. So, several surgeries later, finally able to walk a little, I met my patient in a hallway, covered in bloody bandages. My job was to learn about his cognitive functions and help him rehabilitate. He would never again rise to the top of his profession. In fact, he would never work again, but he could think, and he could understand that even an addict with perceived control over his use could have a devastating reaction to a non-prescription drug.

Two other clients, both college students, had bad responses to relatively small experiments with hallucinogens. One, salvia, not even illegal at the time, and the other, psilocybin. The first developed bipolar disorder and disorders of thought, which have not remitted 10 years later; the other developed depersonalization. I do not know his long-term outcome. Again, buyer beware--street drugs develop a mystique, and are often purported to be harmless--just a good time, but not everyone gets away with that. For some, putting such powerful, reality-changing chemicals into the brain makes frightening and sometimes permanent changes in perception and functioning. How do you know if you will be the unlucky one whose brain does not recover?

My reaction to the sum of these and other anecdotes, is to approach all chemicals that work on a neurotransmitter system or a hormone system with a great deal of caution. After all, even antibiotics can be misused and cause harm, and they work directly on the offending microbe. These drugs that affect our complex, multi-functional, interwoven system of chemical information can change us in many interconnected ways. They ought never to be taken lightly.

It worries me daily that so many people worldwide take such medications as if they are relatively harmless. I learned on my first day as a psychology student: First do no harm. Rarely is a medication completely harmless. Physicians, patients, and pharmacologists must always weigh benefits against risks. The problem is that when the problem seems dire, you, the patient, are afraid to risk not taking the medication and often therefore, blind yourself to the harm it is doing.

I run into this often with chronic pain. Many types of chronic pain do not respond to opioid medications, but patients in pain are terrified to stop taking a medication even when they cannot in truth tell me that their pain changes a jot when taking it. Pain is scary, and chronic, unceasing pain is really scary. But that is not a good reason to take a potentially dangerous drug that is not helping, nor the chorus line of subsequent medications to enhance mood, reduce the side effects from the first two, aid sleep, and then, of course, get the gut to work again after the effects of all of the nervous system suppressants.

Now let's look at how I approach clients who come to my office.  First, I make sure to get a complete health picture, as well as a decent lifestyle snapshot for each client. This way I can get an idea of their overall self-care, major health issues, and what other treatments they are receiving. Even though I am a psychologist, I often discover an important datum about my client from such information. Is my client eating? sleeping? attending to hygiene? able to work? People come to me for such problems as depression, anxiety, phobias, gut issues, chronic pain, headache, and trauma.

I do not differentiate the mind from the body except insofar as I need a medical review when there are physical symptoms to make sure nothing important has been overlooked, because, of course, I never treat a broken leg nor a brain tumor primarily with psychotherapy, though after medical treatment has been undertaken, I can safely offer pain reduction and immune enhancement via clinical hypnosis, which has been demonstrated to improve patient outcome. On the other hand, I will treat an irritable bowel or a migraine with psychological methodology, after that physical exam, because it is effective and can lead to a cure, which medications have not been shown to do.

What about drugs, then? In acute pain situations such as that broken leg, pain meds can be of great benefit. Hypnosis can be very useful with acute pain as well, but not everyone is in a situation to take advantage of hypnosis in the ER. On the other hand, in chronic pain, hypnosis surpasses medication on many occasions, especially when the pain persists despite many attempts to medicate, and the doses seem to be abnormally high with little effect. There is new evidence that chronic pain that lacks a current medical source or is in excess of what the medical issue accounts for, does not respond to medications, but it does respond to appropriate psychotherapy.

When we get to high cholesterol, diabetes, hypertension, and other clearly medical ailments, I ask my clients to have clear discussions with their physicians. All of the medications to treat these issues have side effects. For some, behavioral change and psychological counseling will rebalance the body's systems and restore health. For others, either the imbalance is too severe or the behavioral changes will not help enough, or you, the patient, really prefer the medication, which is your choice to make. But, again, it is always good to have a frank discussion with your prescriber as to potential for harm, alternative treatments, and what the drug research indicates a far as safety and effectiveness.

In the realm of depression, the modern tendency to immediately prescribe medications worries me. Research does not really support the use of medications with most depressions. Good (GOOD!) psychotherapy is more effective, and medications carry known side effects which are often worse than the offered symptom relief, and they are notoriously difficult to wean off.

As far as anxiety, we have a completely different issue. Anti-anxiety medications are less side-effect prone than antidepressants, but highly addictive, with the added issue that taking a pill rather than dealing with the cause of anxiety often leads to long-term psychological dependence as well as lifestyle restrictions to avoid feeling anxious. Anxiolytics are indeed effective, but not quite safe, as far as the dependence they can create. Psychotherapy is known to be effective for anxiety and phobias.

This issue of understanding psychiatric medications and other medications that are not serving a clear purpose is vital to how I practice psychology. I see many individuals with physical symptoms, taking several medications, and not able to identify any particular improvement from the drugs, yet afraid to stop or taper any of them. These same clients might also complain of poor sleep, lack of appetite, grogginess, or gut problems. The fact that this individual is in my office means that the medical approach is somehow not helping, or not helping enough, but because nothing better has been tried, the medications linger.

When a psychological approach is shown to be effective, working with my client's physician to taper medications is part of the process. We are able not only to work on the original problem, but also the new fear of stopping the medications.

When there is a psychological diagnosis such as anxiety, depression, phobia, or trauma, once again, if the client is sitting in my office, it is often because medications have not worked. In these cases, research bears out my own conclusion that psychotherapy is the approach most likely to help. Once again, when my client experiences an improvement in symptoms, he then needs to confer with the prescribing physician to assist in the tapering of any drugs that have not shown positive effects, but in this case, psychotherapy can proceed and the potential for cure rather than symptom reduction is real.

One of the problems here is that is can be very difficult to distinguish, as a consumer, good psychotherapy from just having a pleasant chat. Many supportive, empathic conversations help you to feel calmer and happier. Psychotherapy ought to be aimed higher than that. Not a short-term relief from psychological or physical pain, but a long-term learning process in which you acquire new knowledge and new behaviors that lead to a better mood and a calmer frame of mind. It is okay to hold your psychotherapist to a higher standard; you ought to see improvement. While this can be difficult to measure, it is less vague than some might think. Set goals with your therapist, and go over whether they are being met. Ask for assignments. The completion of assignments is a major predictor of therapeutic success; it means both you and the therapist are engaged in a learning process.

Psychotherapy has been shown to be effective in treating depression, anxiety, phobias, PTSD, and many other problems with life. Specialized psychological approaches have been shown to be helpful with chronic pain, migraines, functional gut issues, and problems with the immune system. Please discuss all medications with your physician at length, and if medication is not the answer, there are a variety of alternatives depending upon your issue, including, perhaps, a visit to a psychologist.

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1/13/2017
Today is a snow day, so between bouts of shoveling in 5 degree weather, I am perusing the web. Coincidentally, today's hot topic in the places I read is memory. How accurate is memory?, how easily can memory be falsified?, is there such a thing as recovered memory?, what does memory research teach us?

For me professionally, understanding memory is important in the process of doing psychotherapy. After all, it is with people's memories that I work all day.  Early in my career, I learned that with psychotherapy the validity of a memory is less important than its impact. A client might recall an event as a painful experience, and that memory can have a present-day effect on his mood. That effect does not affirm the accuracy of the memory, just its impact. The impact is what I work with, as I can never know, minus sources of corroboration, whether my client's memory is precise.

How accurate is memory? The answer overall is "not very". Research demonstrates time and again how easily our memories are misled by simple suggestions. Asking, "what color was the traffic light before the accident?" will tend to elicit a response--regardless of whether there was a traffic light at the intersection in question. This is not because the witness is a fool, but because controlled intersections are common and, thus, an existing memory is elicited by the question and conflated with the memory being probed. What is not easy is to implant a totally foreign memory, such as suggesting that someone was injured in a crash, molested, or committed a crime. The fact that memory can be altered does not mean that it is completely unreliable and vulnerable to alteration.  

The truth is that memories are malleable. It is thought that each time you access a memory, it is somewhat altered by the you who accessed it, who is not identical to the you who formed it. This makes for small changes over time in frequently retrieved memories, which are also affected by the conditions of retrieval and your mental state when remembering. Memory is not a simply thing. 

Another aspect of the accuracy of memory is the strength of the attached emotions. Traumatic incidents tend to produce what are  anachronistically termed "flashbulb memories," which tend to be stored differently, in fact, highly accurately,  with a lot of highly charged emotional content. These memories tend not to be altered over time, as they are rarely retrieved deliberately (versus as flashbacks, because who wants to purposely recall the worst thing ever?) and the means of storage has been shown to be different. This, however, brings me to a point of contention. If flashbulb memories are so clear and unforgettable, how can some people claim to be missing memories for traumatic events?

Whether you term these "repressed" (which implies unconsciously hidden from awareness), "suppressed"(actively hidden from awareness), or simply missing, not everyone remembers everything bad, or even really bad, that happened to them. Our minds have ways to secrete memories that are too painful to process. This effect is not necessarily common, but occurs under certain circumstances that seem to involve the capability of the mind to handle the trauma, the capability of the mind to hide the memory, the age of the victim, and the type of event.

I'd like to add that trauma therapy is NOT focused primarily on recovering or clarifying memories. Trauma therapy at its best is focused on improving functioning, using whatever tools and skills this entails. If someone claims to be doing "recovered memory therapy," their focus is wrong, and it would be inadvisable to proceed.

As conscious beings, our identity is the sum of our memories; which can make it scary to think that perhaps you did not ride in that convertible in the picture from 40 years ago, or perhaps you did not make that trip to Vermont, and perhaps you did get lost at camp that summer. Be aware that most of those memories are close enough to reality to remain a good representation of where you have been, but some are just enough different to be startling.

If something seems to be pricking at you from the past, it is wise to look into it.  But in most cases, it is unwise to assume that every aspect of the memory picture is absolutely accurate. Competent, respectful psychotherapy can help you function better despite painful memories, understand and reframe old hurts, and live more fully in the here and now.
12/22/2016
Have I piqued your interest or accidentally insulted you? I did not make this question up. Thinkers and physicians for many years have wondered the same thing. Mental illness is confusing. It is not diagnosed as is physical illness via tests for microbes, probing for damaged or diseased tissue, nor compiling a list of objectively measurable symptoms. Mental illness is diagnosed via a system of symptom clusters published in one or another manual, the contents of which are agreed upon by scholars in the field. The problems arise when the contents of those manuals change over time, because mental issues are not clear-cut diseases as are physical illnesses. Things are added and subtracted over time--but we could not imagine a time when influenza would stop being called a disease!

Science tries, year after year, to isolate specific markers for mental illness. Tests come and go, but the construct remains elusive. We can objectively test for the flu or cancer or diabetes or a broken leg, but we cannot test in a way that never changes, for depression, schizophrenia, or anxiety. This does not mean that you are not suffering with your problem. It only means in this context, that your problem is mislabeled by being lumped in with physical illness. This is important for many reasons. I hope you are still with me as I elucidate why I, and others like me, believe calling mental problems "diseases" hurts those who suffer with them.


Despite years of using these new labels and making depression and alcoholism diseases, we are no closer to a solution. I do not say "cure", only because that word is used to refer to the removal of a disease. I like the word cure, as it implies a final exorcism of the problem, but I do not like that it then throws the problem back into the language of disease. If depression is like flu, then you can either wait until it gets better, and it ought to run a pretty specific course, or you can perhaps get vaccinated at a young age and never become depressed. This, of course, does not make sense. Depressions often do remit over time, but it can be too difficult to handle the suffering meanwhile, and, despite pharmaceutical advertising to the contrary, there are no medications developed to alleviate symptoms while you wait.

You can indeed take one of many antidepressant medications, but there are a couple of problems with this approach. One is that they tend to have bad side effects. This is one reason drug trials with antidepressants are mostly unreliable--people can tell if they are on the placebo or the medication due to side effects, and in comes the placebo effect and they feel better. A second problem is that the theory of why they work is patently false. We do not know enough about neurotransmitters in the human brain to make direct cause-and-effect claims like "when you take a selective serotonin re-uptake inhibitor your brain is normalized by keeping more serotonin available". The brain compensates for the presence of excess serotonin, making this claim false on one end, and we actually have no proof that depression is causally linked to a lack of serotonin, making it false on the other.

This does not mean you are crazy if you take one and feel better, just that the evidence that these medications cure something is not really there. For some, the symptoms do remit for a while while taking such drugs. That, unfortunately, is not a "cure"; it is a respite from a part of your symptoms; an aberration from your normal brain chemistry that is tough to repair later.

What about alcoholism? One thing that becomes increasingly clear over time is that addictions often co-vary with other mental problems such as depression, trauma history, or anxiety. While there is often a genetic component to these problems, some of which is metabolic, a complicating factor is that we can learn how to use a substance to escape from problems from those around us, making sorting genetics from environment very tricky. There are medications that can help you avoid using your substance of choice, but are there any for the symptoms, so that you can wait patiently, feeling okay while your disease remits? Thus, the first reason to avoid calling depression or addiction diseases is that calling them that and treating them as such does not help you get better.

A second reason to avoid labeling mental issues or symptoms as diseases is that this removes your feeling of owning the power to improve. If you have a genetic problem or a chemical imbalance in your brain, it could be impossible for you to effect change by some action you take. If, on the other hand, mental problems have a variety of causes, you can begin to root out those causes and make changes in your personal experience. For some, having a guiding therapist helps, but many people use books, seminars, articles, or simply self-awareness to help themselves.

What about problems in childhood? ADHD--Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, prevents kids from doing well in school, makes them difficult to handle, and prevents them from living successful lives, right? So the only solution is to medicate them and help them to fit in and do what they're told. Maybe. What if ADHD is not one thing, but many things, and some of them are normal. Children are supposed to play and explore and misbehave and test limits. The environments in which we place them at very young ages tend to discourage such behaviors. This is not to say that no child is an outlier who is more active or less attentive than her peers, just that fidgeting and impulsivity are hallmarks of childhood, and we ought to be less eager to call them symptoms. Additionally, given the rampant side-effects from stimulant medications, we as a culture ought to be more flexible in learning how to help such children without chemical assistance. We ought to be differentiating the symptoms of lead poisoning, head injury, or severe trauma and anxiety from behaviors that annoy us. Just because a child does not fit the public school model does not mean he is ill.

What if you have suffered a terrible trauma or a neglectful childhood? You have genuinely suffered from injuries to the psyche, and you are in emotional, or even physical, pain. Why would I not count the symptoms you have, from PTSD (Post-Traumatic Stress disorder) to dissociation to depression, as illnesses? My reasoning remains the same. There is no disputing the fact that trauma, early or late, can lead to debilitating symptoms, but when I call it a disease, you might feel trapped by your past experiences and unable to help yourself heal. This is in no way meant to diminish the damage caused by abuse or neglect or trauma, but to call the results by another name in an attempt to empower those who have suffered to learn the path to healing.

Disorders of the brain such as Parkinson's disease, stroke, and tumors exist, but these are not my subject today. Such physical ailments of the brain can also cause emotional or behavioral symptoms, but not all behaviors we do not like are symptoms of disease. The trouble with the label of mental illness is that calling everything a disease distorts both the construct of disease and the process of getting help.

Because what I do under the label of psychotherapy is to empower clients to solve problems, the language of "mental Illness" is contrary to my intent. I do not have the power to heal you with a drug or a surgery; there is no magic bullet. What competent psychotherapy can do is to guide you to help yourself feel better with empathy, information, skills practice, and occasional sound advice. To me, the question is whether you wish to be a patient with a mental illness or a client with a desire to solve your own problems. Getting help to solve a problems is just as logical as having someone else repair your car or your plumbing--You are ultimately getting the work done, but you may require expert assistance. Do not discount your own power to solve problems and feel better.

References: Kirsch, I., The Emperor's New Drugs: Exploding the Antidepressant Myth Basic Books, 2010
Szasz, T. S., The Myth of Mental Illness: Foundations of a Theory of Personal Conduct , Harper Collins, HarperCollins 1960.
Whitaker, R., Mad in America: Bad Science, Bad Medicine, and the Enduring Mistreatment of the Mentally Ill Basic Bookis, 2001
11/15/2016
I have been writing on the topic of mind/body medicine for over 20 years, and I continue to learn and be amazed by the human mind/brain. Long years ago, a brilliant scholar named Ernest Rossi began to write about hypnosis and neuroplasticity. He was, of course, not alone in this, but he was my first formal contact with the fascinating world of brain changing body. Despite my psychological training, I began to see the mindbody connection everywhere. A client with diabetes who suffered from severe psychological distress after an amputation presented with uncontrollable vomiting and raging fevers rather than diagnosible psychological problems. People with intransigent chronic pain ran from doctor to doctor and were accused of faking or drug-seeking, but with good psychological exploration and insight, their trauma could be found and they could heal themselves. Clients with autoimmune disorders such as rheumatoid arthritis and multiple sclerosis found improvement, often dramatic, with the application of psychological techniques. A client who had attempted suicide with a .38 to the head showed NO brain damage on MRI, demonstrated no physical disabilities from the shot, but had significant amnesia for his entire life prior to the incident! The amnesia remitted with psychological treatment.

These extreme examples of the intricate mindbody connection led me to view my clients with a much more open mind. Things I had diligently learned in graduate school held less sway versus the real experiences of my clients. Medications did not appear to work miracles despite being used in ways even our textbooks said were dangerous. Diagnostic criteria and diagnosible disorders from the _DSM_ changed over time, which confused me if those listed problems were diseases. Does the definition of influenza or diabetes change with each new edition of a manual? Do they sometimes disappear from the text? And despite modern times labeling many problems as diseases in what appeared to be both an attempt to put them in the bailiwick of physicians and to remove the stigma of causality from patients and their families, suffering seemed to be getting worse, not better, and reliance on medications increasing as well. Additionally, the number of clients coming to me already taking three or more psychoactive medications appalled me. Why, after all, were they still suffering if these medications work? I began to wonder about many things I had been taught and to question common treatment practices of people seeking mental health treatment as well as physical medical treatment.


Too often when you get referred to a psychologist with an ache or pain or other physical manifestation of illness, it feels like a put-down. “There is no physical explanation for this; perhaps CBT would help”, “I cannot figure out why this is going on; here is a referral to a psychiatrist”. If instead, we eliminate the dichotomy between the mental and the physical, human health and illness make more sense. It turns out that the brain can and does cause physical symptoms.

The simplest example of this interconnection is pain. And this makes sense at its very core, because nearly all pain is generated in the brain, Sure, a signal may have arisen in your foot or arm, but the pain percept comes from your brain; which means, conversely, that a pain percept can be generated in your brain without any help from the foot or arm that SEEMS to hurt. That is not the same as faking. It is a fact that pain is a signal that something needs attention, but the something might or might not be an injury or tissue damage at the spot that seems to hurt. Enter psychology. It is important to learn why your brain is doing that and what you can do to stop it.

Turning to a problem that seems, you might say, more physical, like irritable bowel syndrome; physicians are often willing to prescribe psychotropic medications for this problem and put you on a weird and not very nutritious diet. So here are two questions: first: why use psychotropic medications if the problem is strictly in the gut and, second, why do different sufferers have such vastly different trigger foods? We know that the gut has even more neurotransmitters than the brain, so a gut-emotion connection actually makes a lot of sense. And it might not matter whether the gut issue came first, as when IBS arises soon after food poisoning, or second, as when it arises after a huge and important test in school. In both instances, the mindbody connection is pointing to a need for some learning in order to change a problem with how the body is functioning.

What about the flu, you may ask? My mind certainly does not impact the flu; it is caused by a specific microbe, and has a specific set of symptoms, and I either get a shot or hope for the best, and lie there until I get better if I am unlucky enough to catch it. That is correct as far as it goes. What we do know, however, is that over and above differences in exposure to germs and basic immune system functioning, stress has a huge impact on whether you succumb to a bug and how long it takes you to recover. So while I would not suggest you run to the psychologist with a cold or flu, it is a good time to examine both physical and mental stress in your life, and slow down.
Your mind and body are part of an inseparable, indivisible, and delicately balanced whole that is you. When something is wrong, the balance is disturbed. If you have sought medical treatment, and it has not worked, the problem might have its roots in stress. Remember that stress can be both physical and emotional, and both sorts can cause illness. In these cases, psychological treatment may be the answer. Whether you have chronic pain that does not respond to medication, a functional gut disorder, or an autoimmune disorder that responds to medication, but still has a negative impact on your life, psychological treatment can help.

Reference

Rossi, Ernest L., Ph.D. & Rossi, Kathryn L. Ph. D.
The New Neuroscience of Psychotherapy Therapeutic Hypnosis & Rehabilitation : A Creative Dialogue with Our Genes
http://www.ernestrossi.com/documents/freebook.pdf

4/28/2016
Having recently arrived in Oregon, studied diligently for (and yes, passed) my ethics exam, and at long last, received my license, I had a few months in which to explore the clinical issues prevalent in my new environment. Chronic pain kept popping up in conversation, sometimes right after "oh, you do hypnosis," and sometimes before.

What I gleaned from my participation in clinical groups and meetings was that the chronic pain treatment pendulum has swung once more. In short, and without citation: Long ago, MDs prescribed heavy doses of medication for pain patients, chronic or acute. The pendulum then swung to a fear of creating addicts. This was not entirely unfounded, as overprescribing of serious pain medication was rampant, and addiction was up. (When my children left a dentist with Vicodin for the removal of wisdom teeth, I knew something was not right). So docs lived in fear of government repercussions for overprescribing, and, as with most pendulums, now it had swung too far, and even deathly ill patients were constrained from receiving comfort, by over-regulation. Back it went, and back came too many addicted patients along with, guess what? too much chronic pain.


So here we sit in a mess. Many factors contribute to the higher incidence of chronic pain in non-terminal patients. One is, indeed, overprescription. Lifestyle is another, in many forms, from bad work conditions, to bad diet, to smoking, to bad habits. Let's look for a minute at the first. How might too much medication contribute to too much pain? From my perspective, clinical psychology, the expectation that has been created that if enough medication is applied, pain WILL stop, is dangerous. Not all pain is responsive to even opiate medication! This has almost been discovered by the world of pain specialists, but not quite. Apparently out here in the wild west, there is a movement afoot to limit pain med. dosage via legal means. To me, setting artificial dosage limits does not speak to the issue of cause at all, while it puts bureaucrats and non-physicians in charge of treatment.

Clearly, I am not a physician. I do not have a license to prescribe, and I do not do so. What I am is a good observer and an experienced clinician, and well-read. In the world of psychology, it became clear to me long ago that many of my clients with chronic pain were on too many medications (11 was not unusual--a number that sticks in my head as it came up too often). I cannot speak to cause nor motivation--I can speak only from the buzz inside my own head.....if this medication did not appear to help the patient, why was it not removed once an even higher dose had no effect? why instead was another added? why are more medications added to cover the side-effects from the first two rather than stopping either of those? I understand that my own ignorance can be at issue, but I also know from the experience of working with psychologically savvy MDs that, many times, the combination of psychological treatment and tapering of medications, is quite effective. I also know that only rarely does this indicate that the pain was not real! Some pain simply is not medication-responsive.

How can doing less from a medical perspective help a pain that is indeed, painful? One theory, the one to which I ascribe, is that pain that arrives in combination with, or somehow linked to, trauma, has a different cause. Rather than being directly caused by bodily damage, it is caused by what we can call trauma circuitry in the brain. Now, nearly all pain (barring reflexive spine-triggered pain) is generated in the brain in response to something signaled from the body indicating danger, but this trauma-involved pain involves the flight-flight-freeze mechanism, which, it turns out, is related to your endogeneous opioid system. Guess what? Yep, this blocks any potential effectiveness of opioid medications. This would be great if we, as a society, were not so positive that all pain is medication-responsive, because, like the Navajo and many other cultures, we would look for what is out of balance rather than what to do to make it go away.

If pain is a signal, then we must be willing to read the signal rather than making a blanket assumption. All pain is NOT a cry for medication, but all pain IS an indicator of something amiss. Where a psychologist comes in, is in helping you to ferret out the complex path by which you got stuck in that chronic pain loop and then teaching you how to break the pattern. Many think all psychologists do for pain is teach "coping", but there are real things a psychologist can contribute to your treatment, whether to teach pain-reduction techniques for the chronically ill, to help a patient with an acute problem be less uncomfortable during necessary medical treatment, or to actually seek a permanent solution for the enigmatic chronic pain that has defeated medical treatment.

Having mentioned clinical hypnosis, allow me to return there. Hypnosis has been shown to actually reduce pain, not just pain perception, in acute situations, such as burns, where treatment can be very painful. Hypnosis is also effective in reducing pain in chronic situation such as cancer. Different hypnotic approaches are used in the trauma-induced pain conditions such as Complex Regional Pain Syndrome and some types of headaches, but hypnosis has indeed been shown to be effective, when used in an integrated trauma treatment program. Remember, hypnosis is not a free-standing treatment, but a treatment method, which ought to be taught by a professional.

references

Low, CB, Flemming, DC.,& Francis, J.(2012) presentation, The Traumatized Body: Using the Symptoms to Develop the Solution. International Society for the Study of Trauma and Dissociation , Montreal.

Scaer, R. (2014). The Body Bears the Burden. Routledge
2/15/2016

Center for Conscious Living has begun its second iteration. We are now located in Oregon, seeing clients in Bend and Redmond. It has taken longer than expected to get licensed in Oregon, and while it seemed excessive, I do not at all begrudge the many hours spent reviewing ethics!

It is always good to review, and reviewing the Ethical Standards for Psychologists has given me time to review how I practice and how I want to perceive my clients. These standards cover the very basics such as, never, ever enter into personal relationships with clients, maintain high standards for privacy and confidentiality, and, most important of all, FIRST DO NO HARM, a principle that is taught to every treating professional.


The question I ask myself and ask of every other professional I know, is how do I best avoid accidental harm? The first thing that comes to mind is how I am chosen by my clients. While it is for you, the consumer, to shop for me, the professional, and you certainly know more about your preferences than I; my job in our first conversation is to be as real as possible; to introduce myself and what I do to you as honestly as I can, so that you can make a rational choice as to whether I am the right professional for you. While I truly believe I am good at my profession, that does not mean I am good for each person who phones me for an appointment.

I strongly believe that you, each of you, have within you the power to heal, but not every caller wants to seek this inner healer. Consumers are free to choose between professionals who offer support and medication management and those whose goals are more comprehensive. Is depression a disease or a mood that, however intractable it feels, can be changed through hard work and new learning? Is chronic pain a fixed entity in your life or a meaningful symptom indicating that your pain mechanisms are somehow overworking? It is my first job to help you decide whether what I offer matches what you seek.

Suppose you indeed choose to make an intake appointment. What should you expect at that time in the theme of "First Do No Harm"? My strategy at an intake, which I always schedule for a double session, is equally for me to learn about you and for you to learn about me. This means more than just taking your history, however long or short it may be; it means getting your impression of what works and does not work for you and what is most distressing to you right now.

To me, doing an intake also means more than making a diagnosis. You are NOT a DSM symbol; you are an individual. In psychology, diagnoses are more for insurance billing than they are for treatment. Your insurance needs a code to tell them what is going on. I need a conversation. Your problem is more than a conglomeration of symptoms that match a diagnosis; it is information as to what is going on with you and what you'd like to change.

The intake appointment is also for you to learn about me. It is standard for clinicians to take several sessions to get a complete picture of who you are and what you need. This is as it should be, since you are not one-dimensional. However, if that is all that happens for the first three to five sessions, then how will you know if the clinician you are seeing can help you, other than by taking his word or the word of the referring professional? To me, each early session must be equal parts you telling things to me and me teaching things to you. In this way, you get early samples of my style of psychotherapy and, indeed, ought to begin to feel change taking place.

For some people, a session or two to get off a wrong path onto a right one is all they need, but I expect that for most, a session or two will demonstrate whether there is a match between therapist and client. Is a trusting and effective therapeutic relationship developing? Is the therapist following an effective strategy that reflects what you have revealed and helps you to move toward a solution? Are you invited to be an active member of your treatment team both by discussing who you are, what you want to change, and how you learn, and by then participating actively in the change process via homework assignments and self-care strategies?

"First, do no harm". To me this means helping each client to choose the best provider and make the most of each hour of professional time. It also means helping each client to complete a course of therapy efficiently and to be an active participant in the process, such that the treatment strategy developed collaboratively is a fit for you as the client.

Welcome to the Center for Conscious Living, Oregon. Please feel free to phone (916-936-2325) and explore the potential for me to help you make the changes you wish to see in your life for this upcoming new year.



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